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“I just spend what I don’t have. Where do I start?”: I keep falling behind on my finances. How can I turn things around for me and my kids?

“I just spend what I don’t have. Where do I start?”: I keep falling behind on my finances. How can I turn things around for me and my kids?

Hi Money Minder,

I’m 35 years old and a mom of 2 boys. I am terrible with money! My house has been in foreclosure twice in the last two years. I’m behind on my credit card payments, and I just spend like there’s no tomorrow. I really need to turn things around and start making smarter choices for myself and my kids. Can you help me get on the right track?

Sincerely,
Financially Confused Mom

Response from THE MONEY MINDER:

Hello There,

I’m sorry to hear about the challenges you’ve been facing. It takes courage to acknowledge your struggles with money and your desire to improve your financial situation for yourself and your children. The first step is recognizing that change is necessary, and you’ve already taken that crucial step.

To start turning things around, begin by creating a budget. List all your income sources and expenses, including debt payments, groceries, utilities, etc. Identify areas where you can cut back, such as unnecessary expenses like eating out or shopping for non-essentials. Prioritize your payments, starting with paying off high-interest credit card debt first.

Consider reaching out to a financial advisor or a credit counseling service for personalized guidance and support. They can help you create a realistic debt repayment plan and offer tips on managing your finances more effectively. It may also be helpful to seek advice from a housing counselor to explore options for preventing foreclosure on your home.

Remember, progress takes time, so be patient with yourself as you work towards financial stability. Celebrate small victories along the way to stay motivated. You’re taking steps in the right direction, and with determination and discipline, you can overcome these challenges.

All the best from THE MONEY MINDER.

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