Hi Moving Diaries,
So, here’s the deal – my parents decided to sell our family home, the place where we all gathered for Thanksgiving and Christmas. And guess who got stuck with all the heavy lifting? Yep, yours truly.
I’ve been juggling realtors, financing, cleaning, packing, donating, movers, storage units, you name it. And just when I thought things couldn’t get any crazier, the completion of their condo got delayed by two whole months. So, now, my parents are crashing at my place because my other siblings couldn’t step up.
On top of all this, I’m working two jobs, raising four kids as a single mom, taking care of a dog and two cats, and handling all the house and yard work. Oh, did I mention I also have to deal with all the kids’ appointments, activities, and everything else that comes with parenting?
Look, I adore my parents and I’d do anything for them. But man, I’m running on fumes here.
I finally cracked and told my siblings that I’m tapping out of hosting any holiday shindigs this year. Am I wrong for wanting a break?
Thanks for listening, Moving Diaries. You’re my last hope!
Farewell,
Seeking Sanity
Response from THE MOVING DIARIES:
"Hello There,"
I’m sorry to hear about your current situation and the added stress of hosting the holidays on top of everything else you are managing. It sounds like you have gone above and beyond to support your parents in their transition and have carried a significant burden in the process. It’s understandable that you are feeling physically and emotionally drained.
Given the circumstances and the tremendous responsibilities you already have, it is completely reasonable for you to set boundaries and prioritize your own well-being. Your siblings may have their own reasons for not being able to host, but that doesn’t mean you have to take on more than you can handle.
It might be helpful to have an open and honest conversation with your siblings about how you are feeling. Express your need for support and understanding during this challenging time. Perhaps you can come to a mutual agreement on how to share the responsibilities or find alternative solutions for hosting the holidays.
In the meantime, taking care of yourself should be your top priority. Focus on self-care practices that help you recharge and maintain your physical and emotional health. Remember, it’s okay to ask for help and take a step back when needed.
You are not the AH for wanting to prioritize your well-being and set boundaries around hosting the holidays this year. Your mental and physical health matter just as much as taking care of your parents. Take the time you need to recuperate and find a solution that works best for you.
Take care,
THE MOVING DIARIES
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